Chasing Noodles

I realise that this post is going to sound like a generalization and a few people may be upset by this, but I need to get this off my chest. What is it with you guys (obviously not all of you, but at the moment it seems as though it is most). Why do you think that it is okay to make us think you like us, really like us but then date someone else and "forget" to mention it. What makes it okay to say you'd like to go to the "friend zone" cause you not ready for a relationship, this after quite a few dates and then tell us about all the other dates you going on? Why you dating if you not ready? And why do you think it's okay to tell us about it. What makes you think you can still be on a dating site, and active just TWO weeks after your wedding! What makes it okay to tell us how much you love us, need us, want us, but then tell us it's not the right time? Keep us close enough to be there for you but far enough to not have to make any promises. Even k

Let's be honest here. As brilliant as this rule is, it's one of the hardest things to do. You ask any bride the day after her wedding, is she happy it's over? No! That big day you've been waiting for for years and months of planning is gone. Ask someone that's just had a break up, all heartbroken. No! Not smiling, well most of the time. How about a holiday. Ever known any normal person to smile after it's over? Nope, not me anyway, I cry after almost every holiday. I even get sad at the end of a fun night or a great movie. Endings suck. Yes, you smile when you think about past holidays, or your big day, or amazing times in that relationship that you had, or the fun dancing all night, but that's only later, after processing. Don't get me wrong here, we should definitely smile about the incredible things and people that have happened, but i think you need that small grieving time to process the ending of something. That's probably defeating the w