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Rule No.60 - Don't be humble. You're not that great.

(Thank you to two gorgeous Grade 1's for their wishes)

hum·ble

 [huhm-buhl, uhm- adjective, -bler, -blest, verb, -bled, -bling.
Not proud or arrogant; modest; subservience; marked by meekness or modesty;self-effacing

I have been going over and over and over with this quote because I have the opinion that one can be humbled. But then I realised that that was the difference. Being humbled as opposed to being humble is a big difference. When I came back from India, I felt very humbled by the people there, but it didn't make me humble.
A friend of mine and his family are an incredibly humble family because they give everything they have to others that have none and never expect anything in return. This past weekend they organised a day for 700 mom's and kids to meet at a point in Mitchell's Plain where we fed them and gave all the children a gift for Christmas. That for me, makes them humble people. You don't have to be famous like Mother Teresa to be humble, but you do have to earn it. I will continue being humbled by the spectacular people we are surrounded by and hope to learn by their example.

This quote comes from Golda Meir and I found two other quotes from her that I thought were amazing. This chick knew what she was talking about.

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